Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

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Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

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Source: Visualization (ID: iiidaily)

The child's behavior reflects a family's educational concept.

-Married couple

Recently, the surveillance of a video captured has caused widespread discussion.

The incident occurred a few days ago. A boy was trapped in the elevator. He thought it was the fault of the elevator. However, after watching the surveillance screen, he found that it was not.

When the boy was in the elevator, he pissed madly against the elevator button. As a result, the line was short circuited, the button lights flashed madly, the elevator door could not open, and the boy was trapped.

(left) Boy peeing unbridledly against the elevator button

(Right) The circuit is short circuited and the boy is trapped.

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

The boy was finally rescued safely, but it was still a shocking cold sweat. If the breakdown was more serious, what would happen if there were other children in the elevator? can not imagine.

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Have you met Bear Children?

I don't know if you have ever met a child:

They are urinating and rejoicing.

They are loud in public喧哗 喧哗 肆 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 喧哗 他们 他们 他们 他们 他们 他们 他们 他们 他们 他们 他们 他们 他们 他们 他们. ....

Their cries echoed in every restaurant and every carriage. They have a unified title - Bear Kids.

Bear and child are so angry that you want to explode in place, but many parents have a unified reason for forgiveness: “Still a child”, the subtext is “Kids still It's normal for people to be ignorant. "As an adult, of course, we should forgive them.".....

So the bear children held the so-called "still children" free gold medal, more unscrupulous, in bear children On the way to Vietnam, the more brave, until it becomes a terrible existence, even causing irreparable consequences.

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

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Behind the child's unbridled behavior,

Injured and hurt himself< The boy at the beginning of the article was safely rescued, but such a thing was not the first time it happened, and the outcome was not as lucky as this one.

A 6-year-old boy entered the shopping mall elevator and peeed against the control board, resulting in a short circuit in the elevator circuit board. Then the elevator suddenly malfunctioned, and the boy crashed into the elevator shaft and caused multiple brain fractures. He was taken away at the gate of the devil.

After the incident came out, there was an immediate voice on the Internet: "The child is still not sensible. The accident was mainly an elevator manufacturer and shopping mall.Responsibility, "I don't know anything," took the child off the responsibility. However, in fact, the elevator control board has a good seal, the root cause of the incident is that the boy peeing against the keyhole.

Person flow Many shopping malls are full of toilets, and children choose to urinate freely in the elevator, not so much as “not sensible”, but rather as having no education and no sense of security.

Children's “Untold” and “uneducated” are completely two things.The former is a knowledge and outlook on life, and the latter purely refers to behavior. The former is sometimes innocent and lovely, and it is the pure nature of a child's unfailing world. Those who are unreasonably unreasonable are annoying.

The most frightening thing is that bear children's "bear behavior" not only harms oneself, but also hurts others. Between a bear child and a murderer, there is a gap between them.

Last year, a fatal incident was hard to forget.

Lily, 2 years old, took the elevator with the other two children. The elevator's button was originally on the 9th floor. The boy jumped and pressed the button on the 18th floor. After reaching the 9th floor, the three children were together To go, the boy returned Lily, who was 2 years old, back to the elevator.

Lily followed the elevator to the 18th floor and walked out.She did not want the guardrail on the top floor to be in disrepair. Lily stepped on the floor and fell to the building. Death.

Lily, 2 years old, has not had time to experience the beauty of life

Just because of a child's prank

Farewell to the world. /p>

We cannot deny that the property has an unshirkable responsibility in this accident, but if that The child knows that he shouldn’t press the elevator button and know that he shouldn’t be a prank on the 2-year-old little sister and leave her alone in the elevator.avoid.

There is no person of complete goodness and sensibility in this world. In the process of growing up, each child’s heart is more or less malicious and will make certain “bear acts”—pranks, squabbles, or want to retaliate against someone.

Do not underestimate the malicious in children's hearts. Not to turn a blind eye to their "bear behavior" and be unconditional and tolerant.

If the slightest malicious and bearish behavior is not valued, it does not cause his inner embarrassment, but rather grows up with him, making him feel that his wrong move is right.

One day, these seemingly insignificant “little evils” will lead to irreversible consequences, or develop into “big evils” that cannot be dealt with in the future.

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

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Behind every bear

Have a bear parent< /p>

There was a question on the Internet: “How terrible is the bear child?”

The girl holds chicken ribs in the hand, next to a child wants to eat, the girl does not give, As a result, just before the subway arrived, the child ran behind the girl and forced her to push the girl down to the subway. Fortunately, some people quickly grabbed the girl to avoid the occurrence of a tragedy. However, the child's mother saw this scene, but he did not apologize. He hurriedly pulled the child's hand to leave the subway.

A fourth-grade boy was thrown into the toilet trash basket by his classmates, urinated and rubbed. The boy washed in cold water for a long time and then suffered severe depression. However, the other mother said that her own child “is a bit naughty”, “the child has no boundaries,” and “they don’t understand that the basket is dirty”.

AdultsAs the children go to KTV, adults continue to teach 10-year-old children to cling to the lady's chest and even put their hands on the girl's chest. Even more adults teach children to "keep a kiss," and the child immediately presses both hands to sing Miss Head, all kinds of kisses.

In the shadow of almost every bear child, there is a shadow of bear parents.

The child kisses a woman under the guidance of an adult

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

I have read a paragraph and I am very impressed to this day: The child's behavior reflects a family's education concept, blindly admiring the child, letting the child be non-differentiated, and even the basic manners and education. No, it will only make people look down.

A Shenzhen girl shared what she had recently encountered:

She went to work on the first day after the Spring Festival. She went to the bank with her friends and she waited. A young boy took care of his parents' information in another window, ran over and touched the girl's leg and buttocks directly and more than once, and then ran to touch her friend's legs and buttocks.

After being continuously touched, the girl's parents who found the children asked them to "control their children and not touch the buttocks of the girls." However, the parents' reaction was not half-hearted. The father smiled "to teach" his son: "So When they were young, they knew that the girls were cheaper.” The mother whispered: “What do you know about such a small thing?”

If you don’t allow children to establish a correct gender perspective when you’re young, how can you expect him to grow up? After that, I naturally understand it.

Several years ago people had said that children were children not only because they did not have the ability to protect themselves, but also because they had no ability to control themselves.

You do not tell him that it is evil, he can force others to death. You do not tell him to resist, he can be forced to die by others.

Do you still remember a post that made a lot of noise? From a mother, she yelled at her "My son was slapped because he was a little leathery." "She was so angry that she was still shaking."

It turned out that the mother took his son to the restaurant for dinner. His son ran around and looked at the restaurant. He harassed the adjacent table of crabs several times, and later even reached out to grab the next table. The crabs were thrown off by others, and the children had good hands on this table.A few times, the result was beaten back.....

The mother gas went to the explosion, all kinds of rumors, all kinds of condemnation, and showed a mother's deep fear that “the son was never taken so big. This kind of grievance, he later had a psychological shadow how to do?”

But fortunately, the netizen's three views are still very positive. It is true that parents who are not afraid of educated parents are afraid that children who have not been educated will be better off than blue.

Every parent should understand that carve and humor are two different things. Impossibility and openness are two different things. There is no education and innocence are two different things.

You don't educate him. One day the society will learn to teach him.

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

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As long as parents are taught well

There are no bear children

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While seeing the elevator peeing at the boy, I saw another news online. It was also a child. It was a completely different story.

The mother is a volunteer. Since the beginning of the sixth year, she has volunteered with her 10-year-old son and her 5-year-old daughter. She has dedicated services for stranded passengers. Her mother said she wants children. From a young age, I feel the love of society and I also know how to care and love others. Although the volunteer activities were tired, the two children never complained.

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

People often say: "As long as parents teach Well, there are no bear children in the world.

The class organization visited the Six Dynasties Museum. A child took two pebbles from the exhibition hall. When the mother knew that she did not ignore it, she returned to the museum with her children.Allow the child to apologize personally.

Children's apology

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!< /p>

It seems like a fuss, but it gives the child an extremely important lesson in his life.

Growing is more important than success. Cultivating a child is like planting a tree. Only by first nurturing him on the roots, and then irrigating with the nutrients of virtue, children can grow luxuriantly and get closer to the sun.

"Parents love their children for a long-term purpose." Good parenting is the most precious asset parents can give their children, as Chen Daoming said:

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Culture and culture are two different things. Some people are very cultural, but they are not educated. Some people are not too knowledgeable, but they are still very well-educated and well-positioned. The latter must be more recognized and respected for its superiority in education.

Children who are educated are really eager to double their feelings.

A young boy accidentally spilled milk on the floor while riding the subway. The passenger next to him handed over a paper towel. His first reaction was not to wipe the clothes, but instead he squatted down and wiped the floor and put all the sprinkles. The place where milk is wiped clean.

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

The little girl and the vehicular encounter the vehicle and the owner Slowly stopping the car to let them go first, when the middle of the road, the girl bowed to the driver and waved to the driver to say "Thank you."

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

After the concert was over, a lot of light sticks were scattered on the scene. When the audience chose to leave in a hurry, a little girl picked up the light sticks on the seat and on the ground.

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

The 3-year-old boy had a sudden high fever and was taken to the hospital for emergency Rescue endIt is safe to go. When the boy came to the hospital a week later, the boy thanked the doctor and the doctor deeply reciprocated.

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

If you want to become a child, parents should What kind of person does it become? "What kind of parents, there is a kind of child." Although it is too absolute, it also has some truth.

The educator Holmlinski confided to his parents: Every time you see a child, you see yourself; you educate your children, that is, educate yourself and test your personality. When we were parents, the children were right.

"As long as you live out the paradigm that you have to give your child, the children will naturally grow up to the people they see."

On the high-speed rail, a father with a first-class seat ticket , accompanied by two children sitting in the car at the junction to play ... ... the whole process, someone asked why he did not return to the seat, the father smiled and answered: The child is naughty, afraid of affecting others.

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

A mother flies with a child and her mother is afraid of a child A noisy person disturbs the guests who rest around him and sends a small gift to other passengers in the first class and attaches a card. The flight attendant recalled that the baby was very awkward and no noise.

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

Another boy's elevator accident: The distance between a bear child and a murderer lies behind a urine!

The nature of education is like an tree shaking another tree, a cloud pushing another cloud, a soul awakening another soul.

Cultivation is a process of moisturizing. It is a silent process. If you want your child to become an educated person, the first and foremost thing for parents is to set a good example.

There are no good children for no reason at all, and there are no bad children for no reason.

Do not let the children pay for your ignorance.

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