Before marriage, buy, buy, buy, buy, save, save, save, save, get married, and get married. You are no longer that cute!
Why do you say so? Today saw a news, Hugging her husband decided to quit smoking, and her combined mother-in-law asked her wife to lower the cosmetics grade to save her expenses, but such replacement conditions make women unacceptable.
The monthly salary is 9,500 yuan, but also mortgages, car loans, plus daily expenses, the monthly balance is not much, but recently With baby, milk powder and diapers money, plus tuition fees and training fees, the expenditure will only increase. Her mother-in-law has also used 10,000 private funds to support her, but she said: “This money is fundamentally resolved. No problem, you have to think of a way. In the future, there will be great expenses for the wanderers."
My mother-in-law said it makes sense.
When the duo is unable to do anything, the husband suddenly wiped out the cigarette, decided to quit 10 years of cravings, and this would save 750 yuan per month. His wife would support both hands Smoking is not only bad for health, but also a waste of money. She is truly happy and embarrassed.
But 750 per month in the province is not enough. After purchasing a bunch of baby products, the cost of more than 2,000 yuan on the bills allowed the two to suck a cold one. Her mother-in-law was also filled with emotion. At this time, her husband thought of another way. That was to let his wife downgrade their cosmetics!
"You see that I have quit smoking, you also sacrifice for your daughter, you use thatA set of more than 2,000 cosmetics, there is no need to be so extravagant, or else change brand later? ”
If it is to discuss it, it's okay, but her mother-in-law is next to her, and she can hear the wife using more than 2000 sets of cosmetics. On the spot, she went home without a cosmetic change.
His wife is depressed.
The husband quit smoking for her daughter, is your own, how can you After asking this, I asked myself to downgrade cosmetics. Is this not a conditional replacement? Besides, the age of women is getting bigger day by day, coupled with the birth of a baby, skin care products, cosmetics need to be used as much as possible, and her mother-in-law is moving back to her hometown. Threatened, the heart is really blocked.
On this situation, netizens also hold their own words.
Support for the elderly
@Try for a different screen name: Although I am a woman, but I stand for the man, I can make the man hard and simple, the woman is bright and beautiful, and save is for their own children. /p>
@Ah Cheng Qiang Chong: China has no feminists at all and is allegory of feminism; feminists are men who can do what women can do; and feminism It is for menDry, women should do less or do not do it.
The blue sky of Huang Quan: Now that the average family hasn't reached the point where they want to buy something, let alone have a child, so the pressure is high and the expenses are saved. Isn't it normal? In order to save the smoking cessation, the woman can not reduce the standard? What can be aggrieved?
@Light tea: This is not how much money smoke and cosmetics However, it is willing not to sacrifice for the family. If you are single and economic conditions permit, you can do whatever you like, but with family and children, you should pay for the family. This is only the emotional intelligence of this man. He cannot mention this to his wife in front of her mother-in-law. Also, if her mother-in-law comes to bring you kids, should she do this? She also made sacrifices for your small family. Older people are old-fashioned, and her understanding is not wrong. In marriage, there is no absolute right or wrong. When thinking about empathy, don’t always feel that you are wronged. Not expensive cosmetics are certainly good, and maintenance cannot rely on makeup alone.
Support for the wife
@lene_young: Having a baby is so painful that you either have to experience it or you experience it.
@__My favorite baby is Xixi Xi: Even my wife's cosmetics must be deducted. ! It is not enough to wake up with the death of the fatherless education.
@Solutions Sometimes: Shouldn't this man reflect on his income and ability? What about smoking and cosmetics? Smoking is a behavior that is also harmful to your health when you spend money, but cosmetics are for the sake of delighting oneself. When a wife becomes a yellow-faced woman on one day, the man has to blame him for not going out.
@ Fujiya's saying: The essence is not to smoke and buy cosmetics but to spend money but smoking not only endangers one's own health but also harms his wife and children's buying cosmetics. If this is a man who likes to collect shoes to buy shoes, women like cosmetics, boys say I buy shoes to downgrade, you buy cosmetics to downshift, this is the only thing that can be discussed.
The purpose of two people is the same Yes, it is for children, but it is impossible to demand absolute equality in marriage. Because her husband quit smoking, he asked his wife to downgrade the cosmetics, indicating that the man did not take into account the woman's psychology, especially when her mother-in-law was present. It is proposed that after her mother-in-law speaks, she has completely made her wife unacceptable. In fact, if the private consultations between the two are good, there is still a certain degree of relaxation.
About the wife, in fact, many cosmetic ingredients are almost the same in facial care. The price is too much because of advertising or a level of Agents lead to the use of suitable cosmetics for their skin condition. There is no need to pursue high prices. In many cases, the higher the price, the more suitable it is.
Two people have just formed their own small family. Having children will not be enough to spend money. This is also very common.In the case of a problem, need to work together with the husband and wife, rather than simply relying on reducing one's life. In addition to throttling, we should also consider open source. After all, money is earned, not provincial. Blindly saving money not only improves quality, but also makes people lack the motivation to make money.
Bad couples are in a hundred mourning, open source can consider investing investment platform, husband 750 per month, province, wife 750 , so you can save 1,500 yuan a month, so you can save 18,000 a year, put 18,000 investment in investment, a year to make profit 2070 yuan, why not?
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