Life is a dream, be ture. The wedding is a happy thing, but because the suifenzi Alexander pressure, which makes the heart than the free high speed suffocated. Why do we have to follow this part?
A burning brain problem plagued people N years, even if God knows IQ bursting, nor answer:How to skillfully avoid the money?
The holidays, people love stories. Miss Xiao, 25, works in Chongqing and is ready to go back home for a rest this year. But she has received 6 "red fines"". 8 days off, 6 weddings, Miss Shaw's schedule than the stars are still full, the members of the money almost 4400 yuan, a month's wages are not enough.
Go or not? Have to bite the bullet.
This is a dream, like geometry. The wedding is a happy thing, but because the suifenzi Alexander pressure, which makes the heart than the free high speed suffocated. Why do we have to follow this part? There are probably two answers to the question: first, face. Everyone, everyone's fat face play very swollen, but you don't go, you are the little monster outside the traditional code of conduct, is not afraid of Public clamor can melt metals. defamation destroys a man? Two is lining. China is coming from an acquaintance society. People are good at handling affairs, many people are powerful, they believe in people and don't believe in rules. Cash gifts are just "buy road money" - although no one knows when to use it". You come, I go, money to money, plus many people actively raise the market, the wider connections, I am afraid that the "red bomb" bombing more tragic.
Historically, suifenzi was not a great scourges. China came from the farming community, weddings and funerals often takes a village to force. This is probably the infant version of the Internet to raise public thinking, make "the Warlords" put yourself in the collective life of the sea, there are hard to help, blessed to enjoy together. Far not said, for example: "the scholars" are syndicates "activists" who "visible during the Ming and Qing Dynasties with the elements of sheng. Now, we are in this more than the ancients, a sketch "went to" two years ago, the folk elements with all tangled vivid interpretation. Can live far more than art, eight hundred years of no contact with the students, suddenly added WeChat, "single dog" QQ signature, suddenly changed to "the rest of my life, please be good to me.""...... Although as early as witty as you smell them that, but can't refuse, not as good.
People do not split the storm, a large red life experience, is it for hole state.
Of course, the Chinese are not the only patent, but the Chinese people's money is more or less, there is a general contrast. Recently, South Korea's well-known dating website DUO released data show that South Korea's 20-39 year old unmarried men and women believe that when the wedding to send 5-7 won (about 308-432 yuan) of the most appropriate red envelopes.In China's 2345 tier cities, 500-800 yuan is already recognized as a "molecular price".The problem is that South Korea's per capita GDP is far higher than ours. In such a comparison, the pressure of Chinese people's courtesy and courtesy is probably only next to that of the house price. Once, a survey entitled "you are tired of human consumption" shows,Over 5 adults think human consumption burden is heavy.
Now more than a month. Even "expensive", have lost the original meaning of the congregation, reduced to two ways: one is excessive. Everybody is like that. Who's playing special? Besides, the money has been sent out. Will you please come back? The two is simply money. The second marriage to treat two children to treat, with the rise, gift exchanges soon not to wait. The rules of the political arena broke out "demand deposits" may not get back, with the elements of the natural rocks at ease. To alleviate this problem, way up old, only one: refinement.
The ancients said, "aeolian on, secularization below". As for the traditional etiquette or become overwhelmed by the straw, refinement of the mind is two: first, from the start of power. If the leading cadres take the lead to get rid of bad habits, the pursuit of human style clean government, the so-called "somewhat good, the next will be very Yan, folk environment will be better. Second, start from the folk custom. Courtesy loses all the wild. For example, Shandong Zibo South Tai Village, with only 5 cents to weddings and funerals, if you give more, even if it is 100 yuan, the owner will find 99 pieces of 5 hair, as of 2016, this rule has insisted for 30 years. Unified market, unified rules, without public power intervene, human will be clear.
Just, well water can not quench thirst, changes in customs. The "double", if it can not stand the "red bomb", as volunteered to work overtime, go to avoid the limelight.